In the realm of destiny, there exist certain insights regarding the “pillar of disrupted marriage,” which, in practical application, prove to be concise, pragmatic, and worthy of our consideration. The birthdate’s heavenly stem and earthly branch compose the pillar of the day, where the heavenly stem represents the individual and the earthly branch signifies the spouse’s house, thus prompting people to often emphasize the pillar of the day when assessing the quality of a marriage.
1. The pillar of the day harbors destructive influences upon the spouse.
For males, if the heavenly stem of their birthdate is Bing Wu or Ren Zi, and for females, if it is Ding Si or Gui Hai, their marriages are fraught with the greatest difficulty. Should the earthly branch of the day be a character that clashes with the individual’s destiny in terms of the Five Elements, divorce may be a light consequence, while severe cases could result in the injury or death of the spouse. Particularly for males born under Bing Wu or Ren Zi, not only does the earthly branch carry a Yang Blade, but it also sits upon the Robbery Star, making their marriages even more unfavorable.
Furthermore, those born under Wu Wu or Ji Si also have an earthly branch sitting upon a Yang Blade, although this influence is somewhat weaker due to its intermediary nature. Nevertheless, individuals with these two pillars in their birthdates may still end up with a disabled spouse.
Females born under Bing Wu or Ren Zi tend to exhibit a notably competitive and assertive nature, often leading to an imbalance in marital dynamics, thereby impacting the union negatively.
If the earthly branch carries a Yang Blade but is a character favored by the individual’s destiny, such individuals may receive substantial support from their spouses, yet the spouses themselves may not escape injury or illness.
2. The pillar of the day with the presence of a Companion Star indicates extramarital affairs for the spouse.
The presence of a Companion Star in the pillar of the day refers to birthdates with the heavenly stems and earthly branches of Jia Yin, Yi Mao, Wu Chen, Wu Xu, Ji Wei, Ji Chou, Geng Shen, or Xin You. Shoulder-to-shoulder signifies a person similar to the day stem. The weak rely on this kin as an aid, while the strong regard them as competitors. The earthly branch of one’s birth date originally corresponds to the house of marriage, where the spouse should reside. However, if the shoulder-to-shoulder occupies it, it indicates the spouse dwelling alongside. Is this not indicative of marital infidelity? Among these eight combinations of heavenly stems and earthly branches, particularly for men born on the day stem of Jia Yin, Wu Chen, Wu Xu, or Geng Shen, and women born on the day stem of Yi Mao, Ji Wei, Ji Chou, or Xin You, the presence of the shoulder-to-shoulder in the house of marriage coincides with the spouse star, suggesting clandestine connections between individuals and their spouses.
Furthermore, it is imperative to discern whether the shoulder-to-shoulder in the house of marriage is friend or foe. When the shoulder-to-shoulder serves as the auspicious deity, it denotes friendship, signifying marital harmony and mutual support. Conversely, when it assumes the role of an inauspicious deity, it signifies enmity. Such antagonism may manifest in marital discord, financial indiscretion, and the sharing of resources with paramours.
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