Methods to Resolve Post-Marital Romantic Entanglements
In our routine consultations, we frequently encounter instances of “post-marital romantic entanglements,” wherein individuals, subsequent to marriage, maintain extramarital affairs, leading to disharmony and even dissolution of the family unit. Such scenarios disrupt the harmony of an otherwise blissful matrimony. Upon reaching the threshold of maturity, one is expected to embark upon the journey of love and matrimony. This phase, though often marked by bliss and felicity, is not devoid of tribulations. Merely a month ago, a couple may have reveled in profound affection, yet suddenly, one finds oneself estranged from their beloved, adrift in an emotional void. As fate would have it, the allure of another, conveniently appearing, rekindles romantic impulses in the disenchanted party. This phenomenon, elucidated by the principles of the ancient text “I Ching,” is termed as succumbing to the allure of peach blossoms, signifying a shift in one’s fortune. Without intervention, the inevitable divergence looms, casting its shadow not only upon the couple but also upon their progeny, elders, and all those who hold them dear.
Consider the plight of Ms. Sun: She and her spouse ventured into the realm of Information Technology together post-graduation, toiling for years and achieving commendable success. Their joint efforts burgeoned into a corporate entity, where each assumed leadership roles in separate divisions. With the company’s expansion, their encounters grew sparse, while interactions with others multiplied. Despite the depth of their bond, recapturing past sentiments proved elusive as they drifted further apart. Ms. Sun sensed a disquieting change in her spouse, a keen intuition not uncommon among women. Subsequently, after a heartfelt conversation, her spouse confessed to an extramarital affair, expressing a desire to return to their former life. Yet, men are oft adept at articulating sentiments that may not align with their true intentions. Thus, seeking solace in traditional wisdom, Ms. Sun turned to her cultural heritage for guidance. After analyzing the astrological aspects of the couple, Mrs. Sun’s spouse is currently experiencing a surge in romantic opportunities, particularly evident this year. However, there are ominous signs of marital discord looming in the latter half of the year. Without timely adjustments, their union may dissolve. According to Mrs. Sun’s account, I have recommended the following remedies:
Firstly, to predominantly wear attire in darker shades, avoiding white garments. Especially during the Year of the Rooster, as the rooster symbolizes “Metal,” and white represents metal, wearing white would inadvertently amplify its influence, which is unfavorable according to her spouse’s astrological profile. Mrs. Sun mentioned that previously, during the company’s startup phase, her spouse paid little attention to appearance and rarely wore white due to its susceptibility to stains. However, now that he has achieved success in his career, he frequently dons white attire, indicating a shift in preference.
Secondly, to place a peach blossom sword at his bedside, symbolizing the act of cutting through romantic entanglements, thereby diminishing their influence.
Thirdly, employing Feng Shui principles to harmonize the layout of their home, particularly focusing on the bedroom arrangement, including the orientation of the bed.
Fourthly, selecting auspicious dates and times for meaningful conversations, aiming to rekindle their connection during these intervals. These timings are determined based on the astrological charts of both individuals and are believed to be beneficial for their relationship.
Fifthly, based on the analysis of her spouse’s temperament and astrological indicators, identifying potential periods and locations prone to conflict, and advising against meetings or exchanges during these times. Madam Sun arranged their lives according to the above steps. After a month, she expressed that her husband used to come home very late, but now he rushes home right after work, declining all outside social engagements. He even takes the initiative to accompany her to the mall, a rare occurrence since they graduated. Gradually, they have rekindled some of the feelings they had before. Grateful for Teacher Dong’s guidance, Madam Sun also introduced me to several friends in the IT industry.
It is evident that “post-marriage infidelity” is not irreversible, akin to an unchecked illness with foreseeable consequences. Despite the rapid development of material and cultural resources in society, “post-marriage infidelity” is still prevalent. However, as sentient beings, humans are inherently emotional creatures. With some necessary measures in place, “post-marriage infidelity” can be curbed.
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