The bedroom serves as the primary space for marital bonding, where the nuances of Feng Shui wield direct influence over the emotional equilibrium of the couple. Let’s delve into the taboos of Feng Shui for the conjugal chamber.
### Taboos for the Conjugal Chamber
Here are the indispensable Feng Shui taboos for the marital abode:
1. **Avoidance of Heterosexual Photographs**: As per the “Sutra of Plain Women,” it’s stated: “When hearts diverge, spirits disconnect.” Traditionally, men represent the yang, while women embody the yin. The juxtaposition of yin and yang energies within the bedroom, ranging from a modest 8 square meters to a generous 30 square meters, can lead to disharmony when an imbalance emerges. Therefore, it’s inadvisable to adorn the marital sanctuary with:
– Photographs of individuals of the opposite sex: Despite the widespread awareness of this taboo, it’s disconcerting to find divorced individuals harboring images of former partners within their computer storage, often situated within the conjugal confines.
– Relics of past lovers: Many married couples inadvertently commit the faux pas of preserving gifts from ex-partners—be it ornaments or garments—in their matrimonial quarters. Such items, besides evoking memories of yore, carry with them the essence of their previous owners, fostering an atmosphere of envy detrimental to either spouse.
2. **Refrain from Glass Statuettes**: Numerous couples harbor an affinity for adorning their abodes with glass renditions of Venus, the Western deity of love. While Venus exudes an alluring symbolism, the prevalent glass variants, owing to their inherent chilliness, are regarded unfavorably in the context of bedroom Feng Shui. Apart from that, it is not advisable to use iron beds, wrought iron products, plastic carpets, plastic floor tiles, and granite floor tiles. This is because ironware carries a Yin energy, plastic carpets and floor tiles are insulators, unable to conduct earth Qi (magnetic field); granite floor tiles can produce radon gas, which is detrimental to the respiratory system. Regarding matrimonial beds, there is a misconception among many that the larger the bed, the more noble it is. However, the size of the bed is strictly regulated: 1. The dimensions of the bed must adhere to the auspicious numbers according to the Lu Ban ruler (prosperity, righteousness, official position, and foundation are considered auspicious). The placement of the bed must be strategically arranged, and its dimensions should correspond to the auspicious measurements of Feng Shui rulers, thus enhancing the auspicious energy of the house; 2. Conventional matrimonial beds available on the market are typically 1.8 by 2 meters (measured by mattress size), yet statistically, the highest divorce rate is associated with this size of bed because 1.8 by 2 meters corresponds to the inauspicious measurements according to the Lu Ban ruler. Matrimonial beds should not occupy less than one-third of the room’s area, nor should they exceed half of the room’s area. Nine significant taboos exist regarding the Feng Shui of the matrimonial chamber, understood by many couples, yet comprehension does not necessarily equate acceptance. In discussions with divorced individuals, a third revealed the positioning of their bed opposite a mirror, with a minority going as far as installing mirrors on the ceiling to enhance marital allure. When queried about their defiance of convention, responses varied. Two points emerged in relation to Feng Shui. Let us delve into them together:
1. The mirror, being of metal (mercury and copper frame), contrasts with the wooden bed. Metal counters wood, with wood governing the nerves. Nerve impairment inevitably leads to sleep disturbances. Sharing a bed, if one person struggles to sleep, the other is undoubtedly affected. According to Master Xiong, mirrors are best placed in dressing rooms, closets, or bathrooms, ideally on the inner side of wardrobe doors. This arrangement prevents the mirrors from reflecting light within the room.
2. Mirrors exert a stronger psychological impact on men compared to women. Women adorn themselves before mirrors to please male admirers, whereas men, less inclined towards grooming, glimpse their virility from the bed’s mirror, igniting passionate desires, bolstering confidence, and indulging in fantasies of tenderness. However, sustaining marital harmony requires more than the allure of mirrors. Prolonged exposure can excessively excite men, leading to diminished vitality and health repercussions in the long run. Most practitioners of feng shui discourage couples from placing a television in the bedroom. The rationale behind this is that a television serves as a reflective surface, akin to a mirror. Unless the television aligns with the couple’s auspicious element (as per the five elements theory, where television belongs to the fire element), its presence may exacerbate feelings of irritability among those sensitive to inauspicious fire energies. It is generally advised to minimize the number of electronic devices in the bedroom. Strictly speaking, it is considered unfavorable for a bedroom to lack windows; any bedroom, especially that of a couple, should ideally have windows. In feng shui philosophy, the concept of “privacy” in a bedroom does not entail complete enclosure with no sunlight streaming in. Conversely, a bedroom devoid of windows or with insufficient natural light may discourage intimate conversations and diminish romantic allure. If a bedroom lacks windows, symbolic paintings featuring open windows may be hung to simulate their presence. Furthermore, it is advisable not to position the bed against a window. It is also recommended to avoid displaying zodiac animal paintings that clash with the zodiac signs of the couple. Zodiac signs in conflict inherently possess destabilizing elements, and exacerbating such conflict through symbolic representation could unwittingly fuel discord. For instance, if both partners belong to the tiger sign, hanging a tiger ornament in the bedroom might intensify their propensity for arguments. Hence, feng shui experts advocate for harmonious wedding photographs in the bedroom but discourage the display of zodiac motifs. It is also advised to refrain from intimate activities on inauspicious days, as detailed extensively in the “Classic of the Plain Girl.” Every couple should be aware of situations unsuitable for conjugal activities, as engaging in them could trigger negative magnetic fields, leading to marital discord and health issues. These situations include but are not limited to: 1. Solar terms, the first and fifteenth day of the lunar month, solar and lunar eclipses, thunderstorms; 2. The three days surrounding joyous occasions. In moments of inebriation and fatigue, I recommend delving into the auspicious Feng Shui of wallet prosperity and feminine menstruation cycles.
As for the Feng Shui taboos regarding the arrangement of the marital chamber:
1. **Bedroom:** The placement of a “bedside stereo” is cautioned against. The bed area is crucial when assessing the electromagnetic field within a household. Prolonged exposure to high magnetic fields while sleeping can have significant implications. Hence, it is imperative to refrain from placing any electrical appliances near your resting place. Many travelers lament about poor sleep quality, often attributable to the presence of electronic devices such as electric heaters, fans, air purifiers, and air conditioners in hotel rooms. It’s noteworthy that even a small electric heater can emit magnetic fields exceeding 200mG.
2. **Microwave Oven:** Unlike other household appliances, a microwave oven emits radiation even when not in use but merely plugged in. Some models have magnetic fields around the front keypad ranging from 30 to 60mG, while during operation, the magnetic field can exceed 200mG. Additionally, research suggests that leaked microwaves pose significant harm to the male reproductive system, making it imperative for young boys to avoid proximity.
3. **Refrigerator:** Clearing dust from the cooling pipes is recommended. The refrigerator stands as a site of high magnetic fields in the kitchen, particularly when operational and emitting a buzzing sound. The magnetic fields emitted from the cooling pipes behind or below the refrigerator can be several times higher than those measured in the front (ranging from 1 to 9mG in the front and up to 300mG at the central back area). If the refrigerator’s efficiency is lacking, the persistent hum grows particularly prolonged and resonant. However, by employing a vacuum cleaner to suction away the dust accumulated on the heat dissipation pipes, one can enhance the refrigerator’s efficacy while simultaneously reducing the magnetic field within the household. Regarding computers: Liquid crystal displays emit minimal radiation. Should your computer desk prove too diminutive, compelling you into uncomfortably close proximity with the screen, consider readjusting the monitor to retreat as far back as feasible. Indeed, transitioning to a liquid crystal display significantly diminishes radiation output. As for the computer’s central processing unit, it is often disregarded by the average individual and frequently situated near one’s legs for the sake of convenient disk insertion. The magnetic field in front of the CPU can exceed 4mG, increasing towards the rear. Thus, endeavor to position it as far away as possible. Beneath the computer desk, a tangle of wires and transformers frequently lurks, best kept at a considerable distance from one’s feet. Mobile phone chargers: Maintain a distance from them. Transformers accompanying low-voltage power supplies typically generate elevated magnetic fields, registering over 300mG at the point of connection, yet plummeting below 1mG within a mere 30 centimeters. Chargers for mobile phones and portable radios, when plugged into outlets, also emit high magnetic fields, necessitating caution and distance for safety. The presence of gifts from former partners in the household often leads to discord between spouses. Appliances such as rice cookers and microwave ovens in the bedroom signify an atmosphere charged with fiery energy, potentially inciting conflict between partners. Placing an aquarium in the bedroom: Fish tanks are better suited for the living room, as their presence in the bedroom tends to create a chilly, inhospitable ambiance, lacking the warmth essential for conjugal harmony. In the bedroom, displaying a nude portrait might adversely affect the emotional intimacy between spouses, potentially evoking unfavorable associations or prompting dissatisfaction with one’s partner’s physique. Recommended reading: The Feng Shui of Wallet Color.
